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You can use the following techniques:       talking about here is the type of shyness that
                                                              prevents you from speaking clearly to people
                     f   Present  with  plenty  of  evidence   and prohibits you from being open and direct
                        with strong references                to people you don’t know. There is a miscon-
                     f   Argue  both  sides  of  the  matter,   ceived notion amongst many shy people that
                        evidently stating pros and cons of    they remain so due to hereditary or other bio-
                        each                                  logical reasons. Inhibitions are not innate. Our
                     f   Avoid  exaggeration  and  stick  to   surroundings can change our nature, and we
                        facts.                                may respond swiftly when the right situation

                                                              demands. As human beings, we have the abil-
                  (3) Uninformed Audience                     ity to make ourselves be whatever we wish.
                                                              What is important is to develop the will to
                  This is the most common type of audience  change and, more importantly, inculcating the
               you will see around.  They are not so informed  ability to stop labelling yourself as a naturally
               about your presentation topic. We can make  shy person.
               them informed by applying techniques like:
                                                                The following steps will enable you to over-
                     f   Start your presentation with ques-   come inhibitions while addressing the public
                        tions so that you can understand      while speaking:
                        the  level  of  knowledge  on  your
                        topic.                                     f   Always provide  your opin-
                     f   Spend some time explaining the                ion- Ensure your involvement in
                        basics of your topic.                          the  program/meeting/discussion
                     f   Make use of simple language                   however  big  or  small  they  are.
                        and avoid acronyms or technical                This is to avoid a common mis-
                        terms.                                         conception  among  people  with
                     f   Relate  information  to  something            inhibitions that their opinions are
                        which people understand and as-                not valuable.
                        sociate.                                   f   Don’t brood over your mistakes
                  (4) Sympathetic Audience                             and let things go-Did you make
                                                                       a  mistake  while  sharing  wrong
                  This  audience  is  very  positive  to  you  in      information  to  somebody?  Did
               response as they listen and enjoy their pres-           you send an email or a message
               ence with you.  They are interested in your talk,       wrongly?  These  small  mistakes
               curious to listen to your topic and develop an          happen  to  everyone.  Don’t  con-
               emotional attachment with you. These people             centrate on your mistakes. Instead
               are the easiest to convince.                            take these accidents as experienc-
                                                                       es. What’s done is done. So learn
               3�1�5 Overcoming Inhibitions                            from it and just keep moving.

                  Many of us believe that shyness is the nat-      f   Grab every opportunity to pres-
               ural enemy of confidence, and it can ruin our           ent something-  When a chance
               performance.  It  is  true.  Interestingly,  some       comes up before you to present a
               people hold the opinion that a little shyness           topic or address a gathering, use
               in the form of modesty is attractive, but here          it. It will turn out to be the perfect
               we are not bothered about that. What we are             path  to  enhance  your  communi-







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