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Above are a few words that can improve               the feedback.
               your communication skills.                          f   Show that you are listening to the
                                                                       speaker with an open body pos-
                  While listening, you have to maintain cer-           ture.  Sit  erect  while  facing  the
               tain  body  postures  and  non-verbal  cues  to         speaker.
               make sure that you are concentrating on the         f   Take  lecture  notes.  Write  down
               listening process. We often get distracted while        valuable information that may be
               listening, and there is a chance of you slipping        useful in the future.
               from active listening to passive listening mode.    f   Avoid  using  mobile  phones  and
               To avoid that, let us learn some tips for active        laptops  during  the  lecture.  Turn
               listening.                                              your  mobile  phone  into  silent

                     f   Show  people  that  they  matter.             mode or vibration mode.
                        Give  importance  to  the  speaker,        f   Do  not  eat  during  the  presenta-
                        let them speak. Listen through the             tion. Wait till the presentation is
                        whole conversation and then re-                over.
                        ply when they are expecting you
                        to talk.                                   Tips to improve your listening
                     f   Do  not  speak  in  between;  that
                        may interrupt the thought process           ●  Stay focused on the speaker and
                        of  the  speaker.  Listen  to  under-           topic
                        stand, and not to respond. Don’t            ●  Identify the emotion of the
                        be  judgmental  and  argue  your                speaker
                        opinion  with  the  speaker  while          ●  Ask questions
                        they are talking.                           ●  Feedback is necessary
                     f   Our physical appearance con-               ●  Use polite words
                        veys details about us. It conveys           ●  Maintain eye contact
                        whether you are interested in the
                        conversation or not.                       Lecture Etiquette, things not to do
                     f   Clarity of the speaker is also im-
                        portant. If you are not able to fol-        ●  Do not interrupt the speaker
                        low the speaker, excuse yourself            ●  Do not be judgmental
                        and ask them to repeat. For exam-           ●  Do not be disturbed by external
                        ple  “Pardon  me,  can  you  repeat             factors like mobile phone
                        the last sentence? It was unclear.”         ●  Do not speak to others while
                     f   If you are going to attend a lec-              someone is talking to you
                        ture class, make sure to arrive on          ●  Do not barge into a
                        time. Be seated before the speak-               conversation
                        er comes in.
                     f   Do not enter or leave the lecture    2.1.3 Problems affecting the learning
                        hall during the lecture.                We know that even if we try to concen-
                     f   Feedback is an important factor.     trate on speech, lecture, or class, there will be
                        Include the positive and negative     certain problems affecting our learning. The
                        aspects  of  the  presentation,  and   problems  affecting  our  learning  will  be  the
                        include your recommendations in       social background; there can be emotional or






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